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it’s up to you tbh. everyone has a different opinion on everything. it’s not morally wrong or sinful to wear cat ears?? i mean unless you’re into petplay, then it’s sort a kink right? i don’t know much about the subject to really have a relevant opinion though, but i like calling myself a catgirl bc i think they’re super cute and it helps me feel more confident about myself. if you enjoy looking cute and dressing up that’s totally fine, but if you feel weird about it then that’s on you to figure out if that’s what you really want. i wouldn’t wear them out in public if that’s what you mean by uncomforting others? unless it was to a rave or a convention or party, etc. You shouldn’t be afraid to do anything you’d like as long as it’s not harming anyone, especially if it’s in your own home where you’re not exposing anything to anyone. u feel? ;o;
It’s OK. You are not banned from dressing up in Lolita on certain days of the year if you don’t wear it the rest of the year. You can wear Lolita as a costume because you want to try it out in an environment where it is socially acceptable to wear a costume and you feel more comfortable trying out the fashion that way.
Be a Lolita for Halloween if you want to be one. Not a Witch Lolita or a Bunny Lolita or a Maid Lolita, just be a regular Lolita if that’s what you want. Lolita has managed to survive the past 20+ Halloweens and past 9 billion anime conventions without descending into costume anarchy.
ugh so i was looking at this ouji style guide and it was like “dont wear alice bows/etc because this is BOYS fashion and you should only wear what a BOY would wear”
just for that im gonna make a coord with an alice bow
nb lolita/ouji fashion
